MarLisa Hollands’ Post

🌟 Ever felt lost in a sea of feelings you don't want? Think of that ONE compelling feeling you crave. The one thing you are yearning for. 💡 This is your North Star. Your guiding light. Your source of motivation that guides you in fight or flight times. When your mind goes into overdoing, worry, even panic, can't be present, it isn't useful to criticize yourself for how you got there OR say "I don't want this feeling!" Use anchor feeling. Let's use PEACE. It is WAY more useful to think of your North Star. I want PEACE more than this... That is the shift that can change how you are feeling. Move towards what you do want. Let’s take action>>>What is your anchor word? #personalpeace #selfconcept #grounding

*ALWAYS order what you really want at the restaurant, buy at the clothes shop, or the super luxurious mattress.     You never regret investing in things that delight you.    *Money is something that can be generated when you have the right pieces aligned and does that ever feel FANTASTIC for your nervous system!! YOU ARE SUPPORTED    *My sleep trumps Netflix every time. Knowing yourself is a beautiful thing.    *I will always text in a complete sentence or at least an understandable phrase.    Unlike (send)    My (send)    Teenage (send)    Son (send)    He texts one word at a time. No matter how often he does this, I always think there is an emergency of some kind. BING BING BING (not good for the NS!)    *You MUST invest your time into friends and family.     It is our greatest asset in life, to be known.    What is the best thing you learned this year friend?     Please share in the comments section below.        #takecontrolofyourlife #prioritizeyourself #putyourselffirst #youareenough #personaldevelopmenttime #womenwithvision #personaldevelopmentjunkie #sheconquers #introvertsrule #highlysoulful #spiritualmoney #wisewomantips #thisonepreciouslife #healthyboudaries #mindbodyspirit #youareenough #selfrespect #prioritizeyourself #growthmindset #takecontrolofyourlife #changeyourmindset #mindsetiseverything #betteryourself #takecontrol #takeachance #alwaysgrowing #mindsetshift #rulestoliveby #selfconfidence #selflovejourney #selfacceptance #selfappreciation

You do not need to stay in any job, relationship, or conversation that doesn't respect you. 🔎Finding self-respect in your job, relationships, or conversations is key. You are worth being valued, but you must embody that first. However, it's not always rainbows and butterflies.🌧️ Relationships and jobs that don't respect you might leave you feeling undervalued, causing stress and negatively impacting your self-worth. It is a HUGE impact on your internal and external health. Sometimes it does require closing that moment in your life. Sometimes it just means you can ask clarifying questions, reflect back what the person just said, and have healthy boundaries. Is there an area in your life that you require more respect in? Love, work, or family/friends? #respect #workandlife #selfcare #careeradvancement

If you want to learn how to create, save, and invest money, believe it and claim it. If you want to learn to be passionate and love deeply, you need to trust it, believe it, and claim it. You want to feel inspired, energized, and wake up with purpose, you need to believe it and claim it. I have been here holding this vision for you all along. It is possible, and right here for you. It is where strategy meets soul. ✨✨✨ MarLisa If you want to join the new group Happy~Easy~Money and learn more about the strategy and soul of money the link is in the first comment. We'd love to have you. #personalfinance #womenandmoney #happylife #adulting

Taking control of your choices and your calendar will change your life. It can be the seemingly small decisions that we do, on a daily basis that make the big difference. Setting up the pillars of your life so you already know what to say yes and not to, what you will or will not commit to is the best way. It's like wearing the black shirt and denim pants every day, you close the mental exhaustion coming from decisions. How would it feel to make less decsions? Refreshing perhaps? It gives you 7 hours per week back of rumination time. Yes, 7 hours on average. What would you do with an extra 7 hours, 1 per day of the week? #mentalfatigue #decisionmaking #timefreedom #workschedule

Are you ready to get off the money rollercoaster and create the peace you really want? There is a way. #moneymindset #wealthbuilding #investinyourself #moneygoals

Abandoning yourself is soul-crushing. There is a reason it feels this way. It's your sign there is a pinhole of light you are to walk toward and it will get brighter✨✨ You can come back home to yourself very quickly, even if you feel you don’t know her that well. There is a strategic way to do this with what you surround yourself with, as in objects, and what you train your brain to do and then how it sits in your body. Think of it like a dinner course… 🍤 Appy is what strategic objects you surround yourself with. 🥘 Main is what we train our brain and inner voice to pick up on. 🧁 Dessert is how it feels in your body. Every single day! What if you could feed your body this every day… Would you like to know what is on your menu? #lifechoices #peacefulliving #empaths #wealthylife

When my client shared this I thought…I want you to know that you have the medicine too ✨✨✨ It just needs to be accessed. It is about what you already have inside you. Imagine going on an excavation to declutter and donate the things you don’t want and polish up the parts you do need right now. It’s easy to forget who you are in this current climate. Permission to remind you: ❤️You do deserve deep, connected, and safe love 🤩You do deserve great income that supports your dream 🤸You do deserve to feel good in your body that plays in nature 🙌You do deserve respect for all of the things you do, along with healthy boundaries 🌿You do deserve inner peace It doesn’t come without work and effort. You MUST actively work on it strategically. If you are curious, let’s map out how this is created for YOU. It’s done through a “What’s Possible Session” Your life activated with your medicine is just waiting to be found again. Reply with the word: Medicine and we can get started. 🌿MarLisa #lifechoices #selfworth #careeradvancement #empath

Take this advice for yourself. We never really know what is going on with the people in our lives. Our partners, kids, boss or barista. We are all the hardest on ourselves. 1) This does not allow the creativity to solve the problem you currently experiencing 2) It provides no room for transformation and just feels so belittling when layered on others. It’s unfair. Your job is to take care of you. No one knows what you need but you for food, sleep, exercise, rest, mediation, financially and joie de vivre! This is what the world wants. 🌎 For you to step into your greatness so they can be a part of that energy. ✨✨ What is one thing you will commit to caring for yourself this weekend? I’m going to the beach for some winter waves 🌊 Please share below 🌿MarLisa #selfcareeveryday #personalpowerful #leisure #createyourlife

This is Indie, she’s 16. I’m starting to think of when she won’t be here with me anymore 😢 She has been my longest relationship. She’s older than my teen. She has taught me many things but here are the top 3 Unconditional Love 💕 When you have not experienced something before that you want you need to “practice” and have an affirming experience. Yes, this learning can be transferred to people as once you understand this your children and your partner and YOU get to be loved just because you are, you don’t need to DO anything or BE anyone. There is no tomorrow, just now 🧘♀️ When is the best time for a walk….Now Play…Now Cuddles…Now Treats…NOW! Simple things can bring great joy Discernment of People 🤔 Everyone deserves an initial ear scratch, but they need to have good vibes to continue their dog-human relationship with them. She is very loyal to “her” people but she has boundaries. She just doesn’t pay any attention to people who aren’t dog people, she doesn’t wonder why, or how she can change them. Nope She is an example that not all great things last forever but SO much is gained. Even when things don’t end well (think of past relationships!) it doesn’t discount all the gold that was gained in the process. You can take all of the experiences you’ve had in life and build something now that is meant for the current empowered you, not from the person who skinned their kness learning all these lessons. You have everything you need right now to build the life of your dreams, with a great blueprint. What is in your dream life? Free time to travel, more money and less work, a connected relationship, more fun? #lifetransitions #lovingkindness #personallife #grief